fitness, pelvic health, Self Care

Painless Periods are Possible

I got my first period at age 11. I was devastated. My mom and all of my aunts and older cousins didn’t get theirs until they were 14 or older, so it wasn’t even on my radar, or my mothers for that matter. I didn’t know what to do, and I didn’t talk to my mom about it until she approached me about my stained underwear. The conversation pretty much went, here’s some pads, don’t go swimming, there’s tampons too, but you’re too young for those. Welcome to womanhood.

I don’t remember my first period to be painful, but I do remember pretty much every single one after that to be. Menstruation was so awful, I was pretty much incapacitated for at least one day a month, from age 11 until the time I was 17. And up until that point, the only thing that would help the pain was drugs, or sleep, or a heat pack. Well, who can sleep or use a heat pack during classes in highschool? As much as I wanted to stay home and sleep all day, my parents weren’t a fan of having me stay home just because of my period, I mean, women get it every month and go to work and function, I should too. That’s just how it is. It’s like a badge of honor to brag about how horrible your cramps are.

Then I went on the pill for 10 years (side note: !!!!) and forgot about it. I went to university, moved in with my boyfriend, got engaged, got married, bought a house, moved across the country, got a great career, and then it was time to make another human. So I went off the pill. And OH. MY. GOD. My ‘regular’ periods came back with a vengeance! It was like my body was getting revenge on me for pumping it full of artificial hormones for all of those years. And there it was, I was back to having debilitating periods again.

But… Why? If you think about it logically, why did human females evolve to be completely incapacitated by this perfectly normal human function? If we were ‘wild’ it would leave us extremely vulnerable very frequently. I’ve spoken to many, many women who have similar experience to me when it comes to their periods. I am not an anomaly.

I listen to Katy Bowman’s Podcast regularly and she has an episode where she discusses menstruation, and it was mind blowing. To summarize what she says, when your uterus sheds it’s lining (the endometrium), it leaves a wound, of sorts, and the lining combined with the bleeding of the wound, is the bloody discharge we know as a period. Well in modern society, our limited movement means that the organs and muscles within our pelvis do not get the ‘movement nutrition’ that they require, which results in limiting blood flow to those parts over time. This results in the impaired ability of our body to heal the wound associated with menstruation, resulting in severe pain and excessive bleeding, also known as menorrhagia.

So what can you do about it? Well if you ask the mainstream, take painkillers or go on the pill. Or just deal with it. If you ask Katy, or a lot of ‘healthy pelvis’ movers and shakers out there, movement is the answer. I know, it seems crazy. How on earth can movement affect my periods? Well it’s almost a ‘use it or lose it’ sort of thing. You have to move those muscles and organs around in the way your body was designed to move, in order to signal your vascular system that they require blood flow in order for them to function optimally. Your body is very efficient, and only sends the minimum blood flow required to keep your cells alive, but keeping them alive doesn’t necessarily help them function at their best. Your cells have to be active and demand blood and nutrients!

In modern society, we basically stand or sit all day. Some of us walk a bit. But very, very few of us squat or sit on the floor or use our legs to their full potential in their full range of motion. Our bodies have adapted to this limited range, and stopped sending adequate nutrition to the parts we don’t use, like our hips and our pelvis. I wonder if this has some influence on the skyrocketting rates of infertility and hip fractures or replacements? Now, this is totally just my own personal theory, with absolutely no scientific evidence, but something to think about!

So what did I do that helped me? First, went to pelvic floor physio. They helped me connect with my pelvic structures and learn how to move and activate them in ways that I hadn’t been. Second, in the midst of my prolapse diagnosis meltdown, I bought the Nutritious Movement for a Healthy Pelvis program from Nutritious Movement and started doing it immediately. I cannot describe how much I love this program. After just one day of doing the movements, I was sore in ways I didn’t even realize one could get sore, and felt so much more connected with my body, at a time when I felt like I was falling apart.

But I digress. I was surprised to find, two months after starting to incorporate my (new) PFPT exercises and the Nutritious Movement for a Healthy Pelvis program, I got my first postpartum period. I had heard horror stories from women about how the first postpartum period is the worst period ever. Like your body has saved up those 10 months (in my case) of periods to give you all at once. This was not the case for me! It was like the only reason I knew I was having a period, was I was bleeding. That was it. I mean, I was a little cranky, but other than that I felt great! I wasn’t buckled over in pain. I did not have to take one single pain pill. Not one! That is completely unheard of in my lifetime. Even when I was on the pill, I still had at least one day per period that I had to take at least 1 pain pill.

I really wish I had known this when I was a teen. If I could go back in time and tell myself what I know now, I could have saved myself so much pain and discomfort. I hope this information helps some of you better deal with your periods, and hopefully get to a pain free period like me!soup-salad

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fitness, motherhood, pelvic health, Self Care

No Time for Exercise? Start Here to Restore your Core

The number one reason mom’s don’t exercise is they don’t (think they) have time. They are busy with baby (or babies/kids) and next thing they know the day is over. Well there are things you can do in your everyday activity that can help restore function without adding ‘exercise’ to your to do list.

  1. Get off the couch
    Duh, right? Well I don’t mean get up and exercise, I mean sit on the floor! Couches and chairs are designed to keep us comfortable, even in positions that our body is not supposed to be in for extended periods of time. So, get off the couch and get onto the floor. When the kiddos are playing and you are checking emails or drinking your coffee, sit on the floor. Just the act of getting up and down off the floor forces your body to move in ways that begin to strengthen your core stability system. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to sit on the floor. The fact is if you are on the floor, you won’t be able to stay in the same position for long, due to discomfort, and this is a good thing! Keep moving, even when you are resting!
  2. Stop using your back to lift
    Now, you might think you already do this. But you probably only take this into consideration when lifting heavy objects. Take a day, and be conscious of your body position and mechanics every time you lift ANYTHING. I’m talking, the baby, the laundry, that dirty spoon off the floor. Anything. Are you rounding your low back with straight legs? Most likely at least some of the time you are, without even realizing it. Make a conscious effort to avoid this. Whether it is hinging at the hips or squatting down, do whatever it takes to avoid rounding your low back in order to get down to lift anything up. This includes lifting the baby out of the crib! If you are too short to get baby out of the crib without rounding, then get a step stool so you can hinge at the hips to get over the rail.
  3. Exhale when you lift
    Lifting things is strenuous, which is why you shouldn’t use your back to do it, like I mentioned already. But learning to exhale as you lift anything, is the first step to engaging your core properly. Next time you have to pick up baby, think about blowing air out and lifting your pelvic floor and engaging your transverse abs (like your bracing for a punch to the gut) before you lift.
  4. Stop sucking it in
    As your reading this, are you holding in your belly? Maybe. You might do this all the time without even realizing it. I do. A lot. I am trying my best to stop, but it’s habit that has been engrained in me for years, and it’s going to take longer than a few months to stop. When you hold your tummy in, it increases your intrabdominal pressure and forces your core muscles to work overtime. In my case, this led to my pelvic floor becoming tight and spastic in order to compensate for my sucked in tummy! As I wrote this paragraph I had to think to release my tummy 3x! It’s so hard to break habits that have become subconscious!
  5. Carry your baby
    And I don’t mean in a wrap or in their carseat. I mean actually carry them, in your arms. What do you think is working in order to keep you upright while you’re holding 10-20lbs of wiggly baby? Your core! This is a natural, healthy way of building core strength. How do you think people got around with their babies before cars? They carried them! I can tell you, after a good hour or so of carrying Nugget around my whole upper body is burning and my core can definitely feel the work! And it’s not like you need to go out and find opportunities to carry your babe, I carry Nugget around the house while I tidy up. One hand for picking up mess, the other for carrying babe. Then I switch. Just like floor sitting, you can’t hold a baby in the same position for long before both your arms, and the baby get tired of it. The bonus of this is it is also extremely good for baby’s development to be held. The constant movement helps them build core strength and helps them meet milestones faster. Haven’t you ever noticed your baby immediately calms down the second you start carrying them around? This is because they need the movement too! Win-win!
  6. Let baby be your guide
    This one only really applies if baby is old enough to be somewhat mobile, but even once they are doing tummy time consistently you can model them. Babies instictively move functionally. Try to mimic their motions exactly, not skipping steps to make it easier. A lot of ‘prescribed’ core exercises are movements your baby does naturally!
  7. Walk instead of driving
    Next time you have an errand to run within 5km of your house, get out the stroller and walk there to do it! It will definitely take a little longer, but it will be like killing two birds with one stone – exercise and an errand. I routinely walk to the post office, or the bank, or the pharmacy and I feel so much better after I’m done! Plus, Nugget usually falls asleep in the stroller, so add a nap to the stack of things getting accomplished – because we all know a nap is a solid accomplishment!


Becoming healthier doesn’t always have to mean spending an hour a day at the gym, sometimes we can find ways to squeeze activity into everyday life. If you are able to start incorporating some of these changes into your daily life, your core and floor will thank you!

7 ways to Restore your Core without Exercise